After the party

Whew! Or should I say the honeymoon is over. After the one week we spent in Antigua (which we love) that place set the standards for all my future vacations, well except going to Africa. We have to come back home and chill I believe for one day and my new husband (hmm husband did that just rolled on my tongue?) have to go back to work the next day, lucky for me I planned a perfect vacation "so I thought" because I want to try to see how to fit my new role as a wife I have a week and a half before returning to work. To my surprise I was bored to death after Wednesday and at this time I have no idea what to do.


Let me put disclaimer here... I plan to be real in everything that I will write if I can't be then my fingers will not be dancing on the keyboard. kapish?


Now back to the regular schedule thoughts. Can I just say that I have no idea what I was getting myself into, well I know from society and other people who have done it that you get married, you look fresh, and then boom! You’re pregnant and the kids start rolling. (Again I will only claim I've seen this in Nigerian and/or Hausa society). Well the first couple of days after we got home I did a little of house work and watched a lot of TV at this time I was so so into HGTV.

I have nothing to do really in that house but trying to make it a home and believe me I was determined to do that, until the Air Conditioner decided NOT!!! So I didn't go that far with the house thing luckily the AC got fixed and I believed I hooked up the loft of the house and you know the "master" bedroom. I believe there's some continuation to this, but as of right now I know for that first week I couldn't believe I am married. did I jump up and down screaming I'm a Mrs. now nope but after all what was going on in my head I had to make a double take by the mirror to see the new Mrs. I know you guys want to see the Mrs. too so get ready